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 Our relationship with our children can be a major path to learn about who we are, to help downsize our ego, and to become more fully connected with our higher and wiser side. This is especially true when we have an indigo child, partly because they take so much space in our lives.
INDIGO KIDS - WHO ARE THEY?
Indigo kids are very special human beings. They’re very intelligent, strong-minded, intuitive, and sensitive.
The down side of their sensitivity is that many are also deeply affected by the stresses around them. For example, if you’re having a tough time in your personal life or with your spouse, they may get caught up in it and make things worse. Some of these kids become quite withdrawn or act out their difficulties in the community. Some become self-destructive, even suicidal in some cases. Helping professionals often label them, ,mostly incorrectly, as having ADD, ADHD, ODD, and so on.
 Using traditional approaches to parenting indigo kids usually does not work. At the same time, many believe that part of the Indigos reason for being here is to help break down rigid authoritarian in their environment and in society.
UNDERSTANDING INDIGO KIDS
The term Indigo Kids comes from the spiritual development literature. They’re a new breed of kids who’ve been here since the late 1980s, although some have shown up before then. In spiritual terms, they’re more highly evolved than most people.
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Their negative side:
Interestingly, most of the literature on indigos focuses on their great capacity and potential and does not sufficiently address their dark side. Our goal is to give you tools to assist you to help resolve those difficulties.
Because of the type of work I do, 90% of the indigos I’ve worked with over the years had a destructive or self-destructive streak. For example, many refused to perform at school or, if they were out of school, to get a job. One six year old and another seven year old that I’ve seen recently were talking about wanting to die. A number of youth I’ve worked with have been suicidal. Many youth were destructive in the community. A couple were aggressive toward their parents.
Impact on the parents:
As far as I’ve seen thus far, all indigos are born to at least one parent who is an old soul or an indigo. Old souls are people who have a great deal of depth, are spiritual, particularly beginning in their forties, are sensitive, and often have a fair amount of luggage of their own. Such parents provide the Indigos with a rich ground for growth, and Indigo children provide their parents with a major opportunity for growth as well. Because of their strength, and standing in their truth, and their acting out, Indigos provide us with many opportunities for seeing our immature, reactive, and petty sides. Some parents become very controlling, get into screaming, lash out physically, disown their kids, and so on. One mother and her daughter that I saw recently screamed every day at each other, even though it was very painful to both of them.
Having an Indigo child is a great opportunity for growth although it can often feel very painful. It’s particularly painful for those of us who want to focus on the other guy being the problem, and would rather not look at our own faults.
The bottom line is that parents’ reactiveness directly results in the Indigos acting out more. This leaves us parents with little choice but to clean up our own stuff - and develop more integrity and go more fully into our healing and our light.
Involvement with the professional community:
The vast majority of professionals have still not heard the term Indigo child. For example, a trainer of psychotherapists as well as a psychologist in charge of special education for a city I recently spoke with had never heard the term. They were not open to hearing about it. The same applies to some psychiatrists and school counsellors.
Even if they have heard the term, many simply see these children as troubled. Some Indigos are troubled, of course. However, professionals need to see these children as they are. Many professionals will simply see your child as being dysfunctional, such as labeling them as ADD or ADHD, and they may prescribe medication for them, which most Indigos do not need.
Many professionals will give you guilt trips - implying that its all your fault. Your job as parent is to act as advocate for your child. If the professional will not listen to you or to your child, you need to move on - whether it’s a physician, teacher, or psychotherapist. Such professionals will only add to your burden. You’re in charge - so don’t put up with much negativity from them. Find someone you and your child can work with. Your team of professionals need to see the great capacity of your child first, and then help to resolve the issues from that perspective.
How we can help:
Although you may have tried a great many things to assist your child, your biggest enemy is a loss of hope and giving up. Because of Rémi’s extensive training, experience, and his use of cutting edge helping and healing methods, he has the ability to help clients and workshop participants to resolve difficulties that most professionals are unable to help with. Along with being one of the most highly trained individual, couple and family therapists and trainers in North America, he brings together a combination of cutting edge transformational approaches from the West with ancient healing techniques from India, China, and Tibet. In some cases, we as parents have to learn to resolve our own issues before we can help our children. We can assist you to accomplish your goals for a better life for you and your child.
Rémi is able to help heal most cases that involve the following:
- · Anger, fear anxiety, depression, or suicidal thoughts in youth
- · Power struggles with authority or ignoring rules
- · Acting out at home, school or in the community - including aggression and destructiveness
- · Accomplishing little or nothing in life
- · Misuse of alcohol or drugs
A major issue is that these sensitive children and youth carry negative energy from their past, from other people, or from where they live. These may be in our mind, aura, cellular level in the genetic code, between people, or other areas. For example, secondary trauma relates to being impacted by other people’s negative energies, just as with second hand smoke. Historical trauma relates to trauma from previous generations. Research has shown that these have a major impact on people, and particularly on sensitive souls. Rémi has the intuitive ability to spot these difficulties and help resolve them in minutes.
TESTIMONIALS
“It was like talking to a different kid.” A mother, after having a healing session with Rémi focusing on her troublesome 11 year old daughter.
“My child had been driving me up the wall with her acting out, not going to school and ignoring the rules. We’re getting along way better now and she’s functioning very well.” R.S. Mother of a 16 year old
“You’ve really helped me to clear a big dark cloud I had over my head. I was suicidal before we started working, and now I’m much happier.” J.B., 14 years old male
“Our son was very withdrawn and into drugs, and he wasn’t going to school or working. We really appreciate that you helped us resolve those issues within a few sessions.” L.P. Businessman, father of a 17 year old
“My son hadn’t contacted me for about five years and was into a lot of drugs. A couple of days after our distance healing session, he phoned me and said that he wanted me to help him to get his life in order.” B.F. Mother of a 25 year old.
WHAT YOU CAN DO
Read the articles on indigos and on healing on this web site.
Find out if you are dealing with an Indigo Child by filling out our questionnaire here.
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